Loneliness is extremely common with everyone, it comes in many different forms. People go through it when they lose someone, when people think of themselves after being rejected, and also in families.
In this Ted talk he mentions how he is a twin and he says being a twin you can really spot favoritism. He used this example: even if his cookie was a slight bit bigger there would be questions running through my head.
When I was 6 my baby brother was born, I automatically felt left out, I felt lonely because all the attention was on my baby brother. I was 6 I did not understand that he actually required all that attention. I felt so lonely, I did not like my brother at first but now that I am older I love him so much.
Holden is lonely with the loss of Allie, he takes it out with anger, not focusing in school and cussing. People take their loneliness out in so many ways, such as anger, depression, covering it up from the public, and blaming others.
I believe that people really need to protect themselves from feeling lonely, I think a way they can do that is by surrounding their selves with positive people during tough situations. Also if rejection makes you feel lonely then think of it this way, if a person rejects you then they are not good enough for you, if a job rejects you then you are not meant for that place but you are needed somewhere else. There is always somewhere, some place and someone for everyone. Do not ever feel lonely for forever. Take your time to be upset then remind yourself that there is something / someone out there for you.
In this Ted talk he mentions how he is a twin and he says being a twin you can really spot favoritism. He used this example: even if his cookie was a slight bit bigger there would be questions running through my head.
When I was 6 my baby brother was born, I automatically felt left out, I felt lonely because all the attention was on my baby brother. I was 6 I did not understand that he actually required all that attention. I felt so lonely, I did not like my brother at first but now that I am older I love him so much.
Holden is lonely with the loss of Allie, he takes it out with anger, not focusing in school and cussing. People take their loneliness out in so many ways, such as anger, depression, covering it up from the public, and blaming others.
I believe that people really need to protect themselves from feeling lonely, I think a way they can do that is by surrounding their selves with positive people during tough situations. Also if rejection makes you feel lonely then think of it this way, if a person rejects you then they are not good enough for you, if a job rejects you then you are not meant for that place but you are needed somewhere else. There is always somewhere, some place and someone for everyone. Do not ever feel lonely for forever. Take your time to be upset then remind yourself that there is something / someone out there for you.